a. washes her grandkids' school shoes, school uniform, lunch containers and tumblers
b. buys fresh fish from the market for me to cook for the kids
c. alerts me if I should send or pick the kids on time for tuition
d. smuggling Wyng's favourite candies into the house (knowing fully well that Mom doesn't approve to this)
e. cooking my kids' favourite dish
f. wakes the kids up in the morning
g. buys dumplings or biscuits from the wet market for the kids as breakfast
Her enthusiasm to attend concerts or performances put up by her grandkids is comparable to that of mothers of the kids. And over the years, she has the opportunity to see so many performances. So blessed is her!
Except for task (a) which I don't do due to my eczematic skin condition, Mom is not shrugging her responsibilities. She never fails in her parental role. Just that Grandma dotes on her grandkids too much that she does more than required of her. She also worries about them just like how Mom does. In fact, she is a worrier, now I know who I take after! Perhaps, this trait of hers explains her wizened appearance but mind you, she's a bull when it comes to accomplishing home chores.
|Grandma's birthday two years ago|
So, I'm not surprised that the kids miss their Grandma when she doesn't spend the nights at our home. Hoe once said,'You must live long, Ah Poh!'